Archive for November, 2006

A piece to share… about family love…

Friday, November 10th, 2006

Some people think that when family members argue or fight, they do not love one another. This assumption is not always true. When family members argue, they still love one another very much. One reason why they argue might be because someone did something to hurt or upset another family member. For example, if Big Boy borrows money from G.T., or a questionable person, he may get into trouble. Everyone in the neighborhood may know that if Big Boy does not pay G.T. back he may get hurt. His family may know how G.T. acts, so they may argue or fight about why Big Boy took money from G.T. The reason why his family argues is because they do not want Big Boy to make the same mistake again. They just want to show him that they love him. This family will do anything for each other, even if it causes them to fight. Love is not part of a family that does not look out for each other.

Another example might be when Big Boy goes out and comes home really late. His mother or father will yell at him to make him know that what he did was wrong. Then he will be punished for a week or two. This fighting does not mean that his family does not love Big Boy; they love him but they want him to realize that what he did made them worry. If they did not love him, they would not care what happened to him. A family does not have love for each other if they do not care what happens to other family members.   

Love is when family members love one another no matter what they do. Regardless of what happens, members of a family will always be by each otherî–¸ side. If a family member becomes very sick with a terminal illness, the people that the sick person thought were his or her friends might never visit him. In some cases, the only people that truly love and visit that person might be his or her family members. Family does not care what the illness is or how bad the problems might be; they will stick together and love each other.

People make mistakes in their lives as they grow up, and they all need a second chance; the people that give them a second chance first are their family members. There are times when people bring others down by saying negative things to them about the way they look or by calling them names and making fun of them. Family members are always there for one another, and they do things to make one another feel good about themselves. Family members love one another enough to motivate each other and lift them up. The whole world can be mad at a person for whatever reason, but no matter what the issues are, people can always count on their families to be on their side. When family members are spending time together in a room, the love is obvious. The love can be felt because they all are having fun together. For example, at Thanksgiving dinner or at Christmas, family members show how much they appreciate each other.

Love is a combination of caring, loyalty, and appreciation. The dictionary definition does not do justice to the real meaning of love.

U can choose for your friendz and lovers but u can’t choose who to be your family n relatives… dear all, please cherish them when u still got da chance…. cuz no matter what is happening…. the biggest n warmest supports are from your FAMILY! Home is always the most trusthworthy n safe place no matter how shitty outside is getting…

Moments in life……

Tuesday, November 7th, 2006

There have moments in life when you miss someone so much that you juz want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real…

When the door of happiness closes, another opens; But often times we look so long at the closed door wthat we don’t see the one which has been opened for us…

Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile…

Because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seems bright.  Find the one that makes your heart smile!

Dream what you want to dream; Go where you want to go; Be what you want to be….cuz you have only one life and one chance to do all the thingz you wanna do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet; enough trails to make you strong; enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy…

The happiest of people dun necessaritly have the best of everything.  They juz make the most of everything that comes along their way….

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past… you can’t go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches….

When you were born, you were crying…. and everyone around you was smiling…. Live your life so at the end…. You’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying!!!