Bubu

One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live.

They spent a couple of dayz & nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from their trip, the father asked his son,

Father: How was the trip?

Son: It’s great Dad.

Father: Did you see how poor people live?

Son: Oh yeah

Father: So tell me what you learned from the trip!

The son answered,

" I saw that we have one dog and they had four; We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end; We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night; Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have whole horizon; We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond; We have servants who serve us, but they serve others; We buy our food, but they grow theirs; We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."

The boy’s father was speechless…. Then his son added, "Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are."

Perspective is a wonderful thing. Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don’t have. 

Copy from my sweetie friend michelle’s blog… i feel dat it’s really meaningful so dat wanna share with all of ya!

記得有位朋友曾這樣說過..

人與人的關係就像是運轉中的星球.

有流星.衛星.行星及恆星…..

<流星>就像是男女之間的愛情最美也是最易消逝的..

<衛星>好比環繞在我們身旁的好朋友..

<行星>是我們的知心朋友..

<恆星>則像親情..雖少卻是永恆的..

藉由此篇文章…轉達我的思序…

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我們都曾經以為 …

我們都曾經以為，有些事情是不可以放手的。

我們不會放棄一個人。我們不會離開一個人。

我們不會讓一個人離開我們。

我們不會讓那個不愛我們的人得到自由。我們不會忘記。

是的，我們咬牙切齒的說：我是不會放手的。

其實，沒有什麼東西是不能放手的。

時日漸遠，當你回望，你會發現，

你曾經以為不可能放手的東西，

只是生命中的一塊跳板。

所有的哀傷、痛楚，

所有不能放棄的事情，

不過是生命裡一個過度，

你跳過了，就可以變得更精采。

人在跳板上，最辛苦的不是跳下來那一刻，

而是跳下來之前心裡的掙扎、猶豫、無助和患得患失，

根本無法向別人傾訴。

我們以為跳不過去了，閉上眼睛，鼓起勇氣，卻跳過了。

有什麼東西是不可以放手的呢？

你傾盡所以去愛他，你以為你絕對不會放手，

當他要走，你又可以怎樣？

失戀、失意，甚至失婚，以至我們在愛捺所受的苦，

都不過是一塊跳板，令你成長。

我們以為愛的很深、很深，來日歲月會讓你知道，

它不過很淺、很淺。

沒有伴侶的時候，即使是孤單，也可以很快樂。

這個時候，孤單是一種境界。

你可以一個人走遍世界，結識不同的朋友。

只是，許多年後，你忽然發現，你寧願孤單一個人。

假如只有你一個人，你用不著再向他交代你的行蹤，

你無須再逼自己和他一起成長或一起不成長，

你不必再聽他嘮叨，你不用再遷就他，你不用再向他說甜言蜜語。

當你為他作了這一切，你竟然感到無比的孤單。

然而，你有太多理由不能離開他。

你不忍心讓他孤單，不如你自己孤單好了。

原來，所有的責任、承諾、道德、傳統、忍耐、都是孤單的源頭。

孤單不是與生俱來的，而是由你愛上一個人的那一刻開始。

所以把握最美好的時機，讓所有的孤單都變成一個美好的回憶

外面的世界很精彩
我出去會不會失敗
外面的世界特別慷慨
闖出去我就可以活過來

外面的世界很精彩
我出去會變得可愛
外面的機會來得很快
我一定找到自己的存在
一離開頭也不轉不回來
我離開永遠都不再回來

外面的世界

＊在很久很久以前
你擁有我　我擁有你
在很久很久以前
你離開我　去遠空翱翔＊

我依然　等待你的歸期

True Friend

A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty,
He said…no.
She asked him if he would want to be with her forever….
and he said no.
She then asked him if she were to leave would he cry,
and once again he replied with a no.
She had heard enough. As she walked away, tears streaming down
her face the boy grabbed her arm and said….
You’re not pretty you’re beautiful.
I don’t want to be with you forever, I NEED to be with you forever.
And I wouldn’t cry if you walked away…I’d die…
SO NOW I WILL SAY:
I like you because of who you are to me….A true friend 
and if I don’t get this back I’ll take the hint.

A good friend will not come bail you out of jail….
But a true friend will be sitting next to you saying …
WE screwed up!
Proud to be your Friend!

I’ve learned.
I’ve learned….That life is like a roll of toilet paper.
The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
I’ve learned….That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.
I’ve learned….That money doesn’t buy class.
I’ve learned….That it’s those small daily happenings
that make life so spectacular.

I’ve learned…That under everyone’s hard shell  is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I’ve learned….That the Lord didn’t do it all in one day.  What makes me think I can?
I’ve learned….That to ignore the facts does not change the facts. 
I’ve learned….That the less time I have to work, the more things I get done.

有一個男人為了參加第二天的小學同學會，特地上街買一條新長褲。他回家穿上後，卻發覺長度多了十公分。

如果形容人類是一種「出門高 E.Q，回家低E.Q」的動物，我想一點兒也不誇張，多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧！
否則您自己也不會快樂，不是嗎？

Copy from my friend Michelle’s blog.. so funni for da way to decribe men.. haha

有些人進入了我們的生命

但很快就離開了

有些人成了我們的朋友

而有些則稍作停留

在我們的心中

留下美麗的烙印

有人愛你

有人記得你

有人相信你

有人信任你

有人想保護你

有人以你為榮

有人在想著你

有人在關心你

有人在想念你

有人想擁你入懷

有人想要接近你

有人想和你說話

有人想要擁抱你

有人想握你的手

有人希望你快樂

有人想和你在一起

有人珍惜你的靈魂

有人等不及想見你

有人需要你的支持

有人需要你相信他

有人想和你一起笑

有人敬佩你的堅強

有人想要更了解你

有人因你而讚美上帝

有人想靠在你的肩膀

有人希望你事事順心

有人想得到你的寬恕

有人希望做你的朋友

有人希望你擁他入懷

有人愛你給他們的感覺

有人希望你能注意到他

有人歡喜得到你的寬恕

有人希望給你一個禮物

有人認為你是一個禮物

有人願意為了你做任何事

有人很高興你是他的朋友

有人整夜睡不著地想念你

有人希望你就在他們身邊

有人想告訴你他有多在乎你

有人希望你不要陷入困境中

有人感謝你曾經提供的幫助

有人希望你能發現他的存在

有人因你的成功而為你喝采

有人希望你不要太冷不要太熱

有人因你的友誼和愛而讚美主

有人想跟著你走享受許多的樂趣

有人希望和你一起分享他的夢想

有人因為你而希望時間就此停住

有人需要知道你對他的愛是絕對的

有人希望你知道他們在身邊支持你

有人想念著你且一想到你就會心一笑

有人需要你寄給他這封信

有人會因看到這封信而哭

有人希望成為你的朋友

有時候你一定忘記了

其實一直

有人在關心你

I have in my hands tow boxes, which God gave me to hold.

He said, "Put all ya sorrows in the black box, and all ya joys in the gold."

I heeded his words, and in the two boxes, both my joys and sorrows I stored, but though the gold became heavier each day and the Black was as light as before.

With curiosity, I opened the black, I wanted to find out why…

And I saw,in the base of the box, a hole, which my sorrows had fallen out by.

I showed the hole to God, and mused, "I wonder where my sorrows could be!"

He smiled a gentle smile and said, "My child, they’re all here with me."

I asked God, why he gave me the boxes, why the gold and the black with the hole?

"My child, the gold is for you to count ya blessings and the black is for you to let go."

I spent a happi Sat nite with my mom… after off work on Sat afternoon… shop around with licka n cheung kam ching (haha) @ CWB… well thanx for bro’s treat for da new sundae favour n it’s yummy!!! Back home dinner with mom n watch tv with her… da Mr. HK’s competition almost made me cry out my tears… so dei b~ not feeling for going out… stay home spent da whole nite talking with different friendz on phone… we talk about lots of different stuffz… about work, about family, about friendz and relationships etc… is not dat easy to find someone to talk everythingz from ya heart… no needa to think what should say n what shouldn’t be mention about… I can trust all of them.. of course including mo liu dei b thingz as well.. is always what i wanna have friendz like… not only sharing happiness or laughter but also burdens.. thingz dat we feel struggling about… our worriness n fearness… i dun mind to show them my weakness.. haha.. yeah in fact I m not dat tough sometimes thou! Thanx for all my friendz dat open their true heart to me.. i feel myself lucky to have every single one of ya… learn to appreicate what others’ have done for u… treasure what u’ve got… i still have lots to learn… these dayz I spent a lot of time of reading some articles (yeah in office)… i think i really needa keep improving myself.. to view and think in more different aspects… i m a good problem solver…haha.. i juz love to do so.. dat’s help me grow up and know more even listen to other’s stories~ gotta go to visit my cousin’s new born baby… i m gonna be an auntie.. my 1st time… so excited n feel happy dat my cousin finally can settle down n be a man/father! this little gal is gonna be our princess ever… !!! She weight 7 pounds when she first born… exactly same as me.. haha.. fat baby!!!